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Look to Him for your healing, He can do all things. Sometimes it seems like the pain will never end, but through prayer you will heal and become whole again.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17389611036392936518noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3354050433624131354.post-48523574582862463322015-08-31T11:00:00.000-07:002015-09-08T17:01:32.121-07:00Forgive Yourself<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I've always been toughest on myself, a bit of a perfectionist and afraid of making mistakes. I guess this type of thinking has caused me to focus on forgiving others, but never choosing to forgive myself. In the the past I never actually thought that I needed to forgive myself, it wasn't a thought. But when I couldn't figure out why it was so hard for me to forgive a specific person and resentment continued to grow against this person, I realized it was so hard for me to forgive them because I actually needed to forgive myself. I needed to forgive myself for allowing someone to take advantage of me, for tolerating disrespect, and for accepting bad behavior. I was upset with myself for making decisions over and over again that did nothing but hurt me in the end. <span style="line-height: 21.9999923706055px;">I felt shame and guilt about my past decisions. </span><span style="line-height: 1.571428em;">I felt stupid and angry for continuing to make mistakes that I should have learned from.</span><span style="line-height: 21.9999923706055px;"> Instead of forgiving myself and using my mistakes as a testimony to help others, I was condemning myself. </span><span style="line-height: 1.571428em;"> </span><span style="line-height: 21.9999923706055px;">When I chose to finally forgive myself, I could then forgive others.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, 'Droid Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.9999942779541px;">Your intuition is telling you that there is something greater for you, but you are stuck in the known, stuck in what is comfortable. You are afraid of losing control and moving forward into the unknown, but to get to that greater place GOD has in store for you, you need to let go of everything you are holding onto. Let go of who you currently are, who you are in a relationship with, where you currently work, the friends you hang out with. Are you blocking your blessings by holding onto the known, the things that bring you comfort. Sometimes you have to step outside of your comfort zone to allow great things to happen. Doing this requires faith. You don't know what's on the other side of that door, but you must have faith that bigger and better things are promised to you.</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17389611036392936518noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3354050433624131354.post-52825319538489322182015-07-14T17:21:00.001-07:002015-07-16T17:15:10.452-07:00Inspirational Quote of the Day<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong style="line-height: 1.428571em;"><span data-mce-style="font-size: 8.0pt; font-family: 'Arial Narrow','sans-serif';" style="line-height: 1.428571em;">We reflect onto people what we feel about ourselves:</span></strong><span data-mce-style="font-size: 8.0pt; font-family: 'Arial Narrow','sans-serif';" style="line-height: 1.428571em;"> when we hate ourselves, we will reflect that hate onto others. When you love yourself, you show love. You don’t have to bash and judge others when you have self-love.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong style="line-height: 1.428571em;"><span data-mce-style="font-size: 8.0pt; font-family: 'Arial Narrow','sans-serif';" style="line-height: 1.428571em;">We began to settle and believe this is the best life has to offer:</span></strong><span data-mce-style="font-size: 8.0pt; font-family: 'Arial Narrow','sans-serif';" style="line-height: 1.428571em;"> After settling for so long we tend to believe that there is nothing better for us and that perhaps no one can treat us better or that there isn’t a better house or career out there with our names on it. We become content in our situations when there is so much more out there for us.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong style="line-height: 1.428571em;"><span data-mce-style="font-size: 8.0pt; font-family: 'Arial Narrow','sans-serif';" style="line-height: 1.428571em;">Love isn’t enough if it makes you worse. Love is far too sweet to have left you bitter: </span></strong><span data-mce-style="font-size: 8.0pt; font-family: 'Arial Narrow','sans-serif';" style="line-height: 1.428571em;">Just because you love someone or someone loves you, it does not mean you need to stay in that relationship. Love is not always the end all, be all. If the relationship is not bringing out the best in you, perhaps it’s time to move on.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong style="line-height: 1.428571em;"><span data-mce-style="font-size: 8.0pt; font-family: 'Arial Narrow','sans-serif';" style="line-height: 1.428571em;">One detour does not cancel our destination</span></strong><span data-mce-style="font-size: 8.0pt; font-family: 'Arial Narrow','sans-serif';" style="line-height: 1.428571em;">: just because we’ve experienced failure, shame, guilt, or heartbreak, it does not mean that we are stuck in those situations. It does not mean that GOD loves you any less because you’ve made a mistake. Learn from that mistake and move on. Keep pushing forward to that destined purpose waiting for you.</span></span></div>
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For so long feeling stuck was MY LIFE. Everyday for years just doing the same thing, accepting my life as it was and allowing my circumstances and past circumstances to dictate who I would become, who I am. I wasn't good enough to be more or do more because I din't grow up a certain way. I fell for the limiting beliefs I had been taught. Instead of reaching for the stars, I was stuck, I was miserable being average. From the time I was in middle school, I could feel the yearning to do big things. To become more than what I was seeing around me, but I didn't know how to make those dreams come true. I eventually went to college, worked a 9-5, got married, had kids, cared for my husband, cared for my kids, did for everyone, but never took the time to ask myself what I really wanted. Was this really the life I planned out and wanted or did I just allow my life to happen . Sad to say, I took no control of my life and I didn't take care of me. It wasn't until I was in my 30's that I gradually started to awaken, to realize that I was slowly killing my soul if allowed things to continue as they were. I made the decision one day to take control. To ask myself what I wanted and to act upon those things. Not just to dream, but to really act. To make my dreams come true. I could make my life great or I could make it miserable. I have the power. Too many times in life we blame others for our actions and our failures, we don't take responsibility. Others can only treat us how we allow them to. I am still on my journey to making my life great. I take actions everyday to take care of me and nourish my soul. Here are some of the things you can do to become unstuck:<br />
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<li>Make a list of goals and create a list of necessary steps to complete those goals</li>
<li>Use that list to do at least 3 things each day that will move you closer to your goals</li>
<li>Do something each day that nourishes your soul, whether that be reading, listening to an inspirational podcast or sermon, meditating, spa service. Whatever feels good for you. </li>
<li>Get rid of limiting beliefs. You don't have to stay stuck, you don't have to be average. You can do extraordinary things. You just have to change your mindset. Believe that you can do and be whatever you want. Your dreams are possible!</li>
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