Saturday, September 19, 2015
Saturday, August 29, 2015
I tend to want a quick fix. Snap of the finger and everything is magically perfect and all is right with the world, or at least I want it to be all right in my world. Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way. After too many years of bad habits and learned negative thoughts, it takes patience and daily work on my part to get to the place where I want to be. I now realize it can't happen overnight just because I read a book, or I say some affirmations. It is going to be a daily process to replace those negative thoughts and create good habits. So, no quick fix here...just hard work and determination.
Sunday, July 26, 2015
Your intuition is telling you that there is something greater for you, but you are stuck in the known, stuck in what is comfortable. You are afraid of losing control and moving forward into the unknown, but to get to that greater place GOD has in store for you, you need to let go of everything you are holding onto. Let go of who you currently are, who you are in a relationship with, where you currently work, the friends you hang out with. Are you blocking your blessings by holding onto the known, the things that bring you comfort. Sometimes you have to step outside of your comfort zone to allow great things to happen. Doing this requires faith. You don't know what's on the other side of that door, but you must have faith that bigger and better things are promised to you.
Tuesday, July 14, 2015
Tuesday, June 16, 2015
For so long feeling stuck was MY LIFE. Everyday for years just doing the same thing, accepting my life as it was and allowing my circumstances and past circumstances to dictate who I would become, who I am. I wasn't good enough to be more or do more because I din't grow up a certain way. I fell for the limiting beliefs I had been taught. Instead of reaching for the stars, I was stuck, I was miserable being average. From the time I was in middle school, I could feel the yearning to do big things. To become more than what I was seeing around me, but I didn't know how to make those dreams come true. I eventually went to college, worked a 9-5, got married, had kids, cared for my husband, cared for my kids, did for everyone, but never took the time to ask myself what I really wanted. Was this really the life I planned out and wanted or did I just allow my life to happen . Sad to say, I took no control of my life and I didn't take care of me. It wasn't until I was in my 30's that I gradually started to awaken, to realize that I was slowly killing my soul if allowed things to continue as they were. I made the decision one day to take control. To ask myself what I wanted and to act upon those things. Not just to dream, but to really act. To make my dreams come true. I could make my life great or I could make it miserable. I have the power. Too many times in life we blame others for our actions and our failures, we don't take responsibility. Others can only treat us how we allow them to. I am still on my journey to making my life great. I take actions everyday to take care of me and nourish my soul. Here are some of the things you can do to become unstuck:
- Make a list of goals and create a list of necessary steps to complete those goals
- Use that list to do at least 3 things each day that will move you closer to your goals
- Do something each day that nourishes your soul, whether that be reading, listening to an inspirational podcast or sermon, meditating, spa service. Whatever feels good for you.
- Get rid of limiting beliefs. You don't have to stay stuck, you don't have to be average. You can do extraordinary things. You just have to change your mindset. Believe that you can do and be whatever you want. Your dreams are possible!